Marriage Questionaire

Christian Marriage Assessment

“Examine yourselves…” – 2 Corinthians 13:5

Instructions:

Each spouse should complete the reflection independently before discussing their responses together.

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SPIRITUAL UNITY

We pray together as a couple*
We read and discuss the Bible together*
We encourage each other in our personal relationship with God*
We seek God together when making major decisions*
Our marriage reflects Christ in how we treat one another. (Ephesians 5:25–33)*

COMMUNICATION & CONNECTION

We communicate openly without fear of judgment or shutdown*
We resolve conflict in a healthy, God-honoring way. (James 1:19)*
We regularly spend intentional quality time together*
I feel heard, valued, and understood by my spouse*

FINANCIAL UNITY

We have transparency about our income, spending, and financial decisions*
We are aware of how much each other earns*
We have a shared financial system (joint account, agreed budget and clear structure)*
We make financial decisions together rather than independently*

TRUST, HONOR & ALIGNMENT

I trust my spouse fully and feel secure in our relationship*
We are aligned in our vision for marriage, family, and purpose. (Amos 3:3)*

PARENTING & FAMILY DISCIPLESHIP

We intentionally teach our children the Word of God and model it daily. (Deuteronomy 6:6–7)*
My husband is actively involved in leading, guiding, and spending meaningful time with our children (spiritually and practically)*
We are united in our parenting approach, discipline, and expectations*
Our home environment reflects Christ (love, order, correction, grace)*
We pray with and over our children consistently*